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Hexagram:

Also known as:

54. Careful Affection

Cautious Attachment, Humble Partnership, Sensitivity in Relationships, Mindful Affection, Honoring Commitment, Navigating Subordination, Balancing Power in Love, Subtle Affection, Thoughtful Union, Guarding Connection

Line

Drawn as

Energy

Duality

Trigram

Dynamic

Polarity

Meaning

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Yin

Feminine

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Yang

Masculine

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Yin

Feminine

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Yin

Feminine

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Yang

Masculine

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Yang

Masculine

Trigram

3

Lower

2

1

6

Upper

5

4

Lake

Youngest Daughter

Immature Yin

Joy

Lake

Youngest Daughter

Immature Yin

Joy

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English Name

Chinese Name

Hanzi

Pinyin

Action

Hexagram:

卦 Guà

Hidden Influence:

互卦 Hu Guà (nuclear)

Underlying Cause:

綜卦 Zong Guà (reverse)

54. Careful Affection

歸妹

guī mèi

Aide

63. After Completion

既濟

Renew

jiàn

53. Development

chi chi / jì jì

Flower

Image (Legge):

Thunder over the lake: the image of The Marrying Maiden. Thus the superior man understands the transitory in the light of the eternity of the end.

Judgement (Legge):

The Marrying Maiden. Undertakings bring misfortune. Nothing that would further.

Upright Hexagram

Overall meaning:

Careful Affection represents relationships, respect for boundaries, and understanding one’s place within a larger context. This hexagram signifies a time when adapting to circumstances with humility and care is essential, especially in matters of affection, loyalty, and mutual support. Careful Affection encourages a mindful approach to relationships, recognizing that there are times to step back and observe rather than take center stage. It suggests that honoring one’s position and respecting established dynamics fosters harmony and trust, allowing connections to grow in a balanced way.

The essence of Hexagram 54 lies in restraint, adaptability, and the grace of knowing when to follow rather than lead. It teaches that by embracing a supportive role with sincerity, one can find fulfillment and strength within the structure of relationships. This hexagram reminds us that true affection often involves a careful balance of presence and distance, respecting others’ boundaries and understanding the rhythms of each relationship. In this way, Careful Affection emphasizes the value of thoughtful engagement, encouraging us to nurture connections with wisdom, patience, and heartfelt regard.

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counter clockwise

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Quotes:

Binary Number Created:

001011

Expression:

I express affection

Affirmation:

I honor my connections with grace and mindfulness, nurturing relationships with genuine care and respect.

Line 1:

The first line represents someone entering a new situation with little power or influence, like a young bride in a subordinate role. This line advises patience and adaptability, as initial limitations can be navigated with humility and careful action.

Line 2:

In this line, the subject remains humble and does not attempt to overstep their position, which brings good fortune. By accepting one’s role and working within it, harmonious relationships and steady progress are possible.

Line 3:

The third line shows someone trying to assert themselves prematurely, which can lead to frustration and disappointment. This line suggests that one should avoid pushing for influence too early and instead allow growth to happen naturally.

Line 4:

Here, the subject finds themselves in a position of compromise, feeling constrained by external circumstances. This line advises remaining flexible and finding ways to navigate these constraints gracefully to avoid unnecessary conflict.

Line 5:

The fifth line represents someone who holds their affection and commitment sincerely, bringing good fortune. By acting with integrity and maintaining loyalty, they gain respect and create stability in relationships.

Line 6:

The sixth line warns against seeking power or asserting oneself too forcefully, as this can lead to misfortune. True harmony comes from recognizing one’s role and exercising restraint, rather than pushing for control or dominance.

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54

Binary:

001011

Structure:

Unicode decimal:

Unicode point:

Non-Core Gua

19957

U+4DF5

Sector:

112.5 to 118.125

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